How to Kiss a Guy for the First Time

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You’ve found the perfect guy to kiss, it’s important that you know what to do and how. Kissing well is really important, but thankfully it’s easy if you have good habits. Just follow these simple steps and you’ll be an expert in no time!

Table of Contents

Before kissing

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Make sure your breath is fresh. Fresh breath is important when kissing because you want to give the guy as many reasons as possible to keep kissing you. Use gum or mints and always brush your teeth before seeing him. Remember, bad breath is not the end of the world but avoid it if you can.

Don’t eat strong, spicy, or garlic-flavored foods before you meet him. Again, if you can’t avoid them that’s not a big deal, but it’s better to avoid them all at once.

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Make sure you choose the best outfit. You can’t always plan where and when to kiss a guy, but you can try to prepare for it. If you dress well and comfortably, you will find your steps as light as flying. That means that you will be more confident. More confidence means he’s more likely to come back and kiss you again.

There’s no need to wear lip gloss, and don’t use regular lipstick. Gloss and regular lipstick, especially regular lipstick, will smudge on the other person’s face, making him look shiny or dirty, depending on the situation. Stick with lip balm.
Do not use too many accessories such as brimmed hats, or create entangled hairstyles. Guys all like natural beauty. You might want to try kissing him in a high ponytail, so that he focuses only on you and the kiss and not the hairs tickling his face.

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Find a suitable place to kiss. Public places are often not suitable for first kisses, because you can be stared at and even disturbed by others. Try to find somewhere that’s public but still private enough for the two of you to share your first kiss.

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Try to do something less jittery by flirting with body language. Not only will this help him understand that you like him, but it will also give him time to get to know you, so you don’t jump from 0 to 60 in an instant.

Hold his hand or put your arm around his neck. Move your body to bring him closer to you; It would be weird if you had to move too far to kiss him.
Brush his hair or face to let him know you’re interested. Gently touch his nose with your index finger and smile at him.
You can also try hugging him first, and while you’re hugging him, lean back and lean in for a kiss. This will create a connection from the moment you hug.

While kissing

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Bring your lips slowly closer to him, closing your eyes at the last second. You need to look to kiss him properly on the lips, but you also don’t want to open your eyes when you two kiss, so close your eyes just before locking your lips.

Close your eyes while kissing. When the kiss is over, you can open your eyes and gently pull away from him.
Let’s approach the kiss at an angle. This means, if his face is kept straight, you’ll probably want your face tilted slightly left or right, whichever makes you more comfortable. This will prevent the two of you from touching your nose while kissing.

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Use your bottom lip mainly when kissing. Don’t pout your lips like you’ve eaten a sour marshmallow, or like you’re kissing your grandmother. Loosen your lips and relax.

Give him a long kiss. You don’t have to do anything extreme to get a guy’s attention the first time.
Your big goal is to get him back for the next kiss. Give him enough to keep him interested, but not so much that he gets bored. Try to keep your first kiss under 20 seconds if you can.
Breathe gently through your nose. Try not to breathe into his throat or into his lips.
Don’t French kiss the first time. The French kiss is a difficult kiss, save it until you really want to surprise him.

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When the two of you are kissing, try a gentle open-mouth kiss. Simply part your lips slightly and kiss his bottom lip with yours. Don’t drag it on too long — about 5 seconds — and be prepared to stop soon.

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While kissing, put your hands on his back and lean towards him. This way, you can get double the bargain you’re on! If he puts his hand on your back or hugs your waist, it means he wants to protect you and you may have succeeded!

If he plays with your hair or gently caresses your cheek, it’s a sign that he understands how he feels, and he definitely likes you.
Remember to close your eyes the whole time. Do not be petty! Your attention should only be on his lips and the kiss.

After kissing

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When you leave the kiss, open your eyes. This is the time to look at the guy you just shared a kiss with. If you do well, he’ll blush, eyes half-closed, and smile.

Smile back at him. He might be nervous about how he kissed, so you’ll want to convince him that he did a great job. You can do this just by smiling.
If your arms are still around him, let them stay there for a few seconds before letting go. It would be weird if you suddenly let go of your hand right after the kiss ended.

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Say something nice about him, if you want. Sometimes a kiss is enough to say it all. But sometimes, you still want to say something after the kiss, for example:

“You really kissed me.”
“I’ve wanted to do that for a long time.”

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Listen to what your heart wants to say. So you’ve finally kissed the guy you’ve wanted to kiss to death for the past six months. What about now? You have a few options:

Wait for him to take the next step. If you’re the one going for the first kiss, you might think it’s his turn to initiate the next kiss. Just be yourself, do what you normally would, but be friendly and supportive. He will try to kiss you again.
Kiss him when you want. Maybe you don’t care who is actively kissing who, just simply kissing. That’s fine, but make sure he likes it too. Kissing him often is more likely to lead to a relationship.
Learn to stop kissing. Maybe it’s because he’s not a good kisser, or he touches you in the wrong places, or you have a bad feeling about him. That’s completely fine. Try to be friendly around him, but don’t put yourself in situations (specifically just the two of you, in a secluded place) where he can kiss you again.

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Remember the conventions of kissing. There are unwritten rules you should know about kissing. Pay attention and try to follow them if possible and if you think it is reasonable.

Don’t reveal about your love life. We know — it’s incredibly easy to commit. But that doesn’t mean it’s right to do so. What happens between you and your crush is up to the two of you. Don’t gossip too much about it.
Don’t kiss when you are sick and can easily spread the disease. Kissing is a very intimate thing, but it doesn’t mean your partner wants everything from you, including your cold. Try not to kiss when you’re not feeling well.
Kiss one person, don’t kiss everyone. Kissing can be fun, but it doesn’t mean just going out and kissing whoever you want. Focus on one person you really like, try everything, and move on to other people if things don’t work out between the two of you. You will be greatly appreciated, and you will definitely be happier.

Advice

Close your eyes: a guy or girl with wide eyes will give the impression that they are shocked or uncomfortable! Close your eyes for a beautiful long first kiss.
Different signs of kissing have different meanings. Get to know them! When a guy hugs you in different parts of his body, here’s what he’s trying to tell you:
- Hands on waist — he is infatuated with you and wants to protect you.
- Hands behind your back — he wants you and doesn’t want to let you go. He feels comfortable around you.
- Hands on arms — he wants to hold you and likes the way you feel.
- Arms around his neck — he wanted more.
- Hands stroking your face — it’s never enough for him to fall in love with you and be in love with you.
- Hands in hair — he was trying to be a gentleman.
Hold him where you feel most confident. Remember and make sure you don’t let the kiss last too long, as that will leave him wanting more the next time.
Make sure you’re in a place that’s not too public and that you’re comfortable with your surroundings.
If you feel like he’s touching you with bad intentions, you have every right to tell him not to do it again.
Be enjoy. The first kiss is very special. Don’t worry too much about anything, just relax and let him hold you.
When kissing him, let him lead the way, but don’t overdo it. Guys love the feeling of being in control and it’s also fun to have someone give you a tight hug, but make sure you’re directing the kiss and, if it feels like something isn’t right, let go.
Keep a bottle of mouth spray with you and use it before you kiss him.
You can also use mint instead of breath freshener.
Don’t tell him you’re about to kiss him. That might freak him out.
Before you kiss him, talk to him and make sure you really want to kiss him. Don’t just take the risk, he may feel confused, scared, or uncomfortable.
Don’t be shocked or embarrassed by what you do, everyone kisses, it’s not that big of a deal – if you love him that’s all that matters!

Warning

If this is your first kiss, make sure it’s just the two of you, because kissing in front of your friends can be uncomfortable. You don’t want to feel like they’re staring at your kiss.
Make sure you don’t just do it because you see no other hope; Make sure you really like him. It’s not good when you have a reputation for being able to kiss anyone or everyone.
Remember when you feel uncomfortable, you have the right to separate. Don’t do what you don’t want!
Make sure the opponent is ready too, don’t rush in. The two of you must watch each other’s actions before you kiss him.
Always make sure you don’t let the guy you’re sharing your first kiss with get the wrong idea about what you want him to do with you. Touching him in the wrong places will make him think you want more than you paid for.
Do not chew gum; it makes you salivate. Saliva is antibacterial, so if you have the right amount, it’s very good. However, no one wants to feel like they are kissing a dog.
If you wear braces, make sure there are no sharp parts, or your opponent will have a cleft lip or tongue!

Steps

Before kissing

While kissing

After kissing

Advice

Warning

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